Randomness

Life’s funny sometimes. Earlier today, someone I thought was a nice person acted like a complete jerk and screwed over two people in the process (one of them being me). And then, this evening, someone that I barely know at all (but who seemed like a jerk on first impression) did something extremely generous and unselfish, and gave me something very valuable for no reason at all and asked nothing in return.

Karmic payback? Random chance? Who knows. We humans are great at pattern recognition, and we can see patterns where there aren’t any.

Either way, one thing is for sure. Today was a reminder to me — to judge people on what they do more than what they say.

Super Tuesday: AM Edition

In November of 2004, I donned a black zip-up hoodie and walked out into a grey, foggy San Francisco morning to go vote. I was scared, angry, and stressed out. We all know what happened.

Today, I’m wearing purple and the sun is shining after a week of rain. I’ll be leaving to go vote as soon as I finish this post.

I fear hope — it has let me down bitterly in the past — but right now, I’m cautiously hopeful about the outcome of today. Tonight, I could be looking at this post and wishing I’d never written it, but right now, I’m going to indulge in the luxury of hope for a better, brighter future. And now I’m going to go do something about it.

Get out there and vote today if you live in a primary state!

Sad News: RIP Ronald Noll

I spent roughly 10 years as a member of New York’s Village Light Opera Group. It’s a classic community theater group comprised of dedicated, hardworking, talented volunteers, who have put on high-quality theater in the heart of New York City for decades.

Tonight I learned of the passing of VLOG’s longtime Music Director, Ron Noll, and it’s hard to type through the tears. Ron’s passion for music shone through everything he did, and came second only to his passion for his family.

One of my favorite memories of Ron dates back to VLOG’s production of “The Desert Song”, back around 1995 or so. In the finale of the first act, Azuri, the “native woman” seduces a French soldier, thereby proving that he’s not a suitable match for the heroine (sorry, that’s not politically correct, but what can you do, Romburg wrote it in the 1920s). At any rate, the ensemble sings this gorgeous accompaniment to her dance, and right before the end, there’s a key change signaled by the sopranos. Every night we did the show, Ron’s eyes would meet mine as the transition happened, and he would smile happily, as would I. It was a perfect little musical moment.

Ron did more than run a community theater group. He won an Emmy, among other achievements. But for me (and I suspect for many others), his work with VLOG was what left the biggest mark on the world.

You like to think that things will always go on as they were … and then, they don’t. It’s a sad fact of life. Luckily we were blessed to have Ron with us for as long as we did.

Rest well, Maestro.

Quick Note

It’s an odd feeling to compare the stats of my 4+ year old blog and my 3+ month old blog, and realize that the baby blog is getting more traffic and more subscribers than this one.

Happy New Year!

This was the view from my terrace tonight. A fantastic, colorful sunset to close out the year:

NYE Sunset

A friend is coming over a little later, and we’ll have snacks, some champagne, maybe play some Wii or watch a movie. A nice quiet New Year’s with all the important things: good friends, good food, family, and some fun.

2007 was an up-and-down, “two steps forward one step back” kind of year in some ways, but on the other hand, I have my health, my family, my friends, and the great good fortune to live in a place and time where my destiny is changeable and under my own control. When I start thinking too much about the bad things, I need to remember that.

Thanks to all my readers for stopping by and sharing a part of your life, however small, with me. I hope you’ll be back in 2008. I’m looking forward to what happens next.